Monday, February 21, 2011

As Promised: The Thurman Thomas story

As I mentioned in my last post, I've had plenty of interactions with celebrities, and most of those instances with athletes. Some of the meetings have been positive, like shooting around with Miami Heat players while in high school because they used my high school gym as a practice facility. Some of the meetings have been negative, like the acerbic, attitude-filled and ego-soaked exchanges with Dan Marino and Hanley Ramirez. And some have been fleeting, like serving Serena Williams coffee while working at Starbucks and trying to ignore the funk that wafted from the woman. But of all my stories with athletes, my time with hall-of-fame running back Thurman Thomas was perhaps the most delightful.

While in college, I worked at Starbucks with a very close-knit group of friends. One summer, we had the opportunity to serve as volunteers for Jim Kelly's charity auction and golf tournament that benefited his foundation, Hunter's Hope. At this point in my life, my following of sports bordered very much on overzealous fanaticism, and the opportunity to mingle with current and former professional football players and maybe land an autograph was too enticing to pass up. No matter the menial work that would be assigned. An added benefit of volunteering was a room at the Loews Hotel on Miami Beach for the weekend. (The fact that 6 guys would share one room did not damper our level of excitement.)

All of us being in our early twenties, we jumped at the chance and found ourselves on that Saturday afternoon prowling pool-side. We eagerly awaited the opportunity to circulate amongst some of the greatest football players of the generation. At this point, most of Kelly's guest had yet to arrive for the charity auction that evening, and the ballroom had already been dressed by the hotel staff, so we were free to swim, drink, and ogle. It wasn't until later that night that we would really start working.

In the evening, celebrity guests filtered in for the charity auction. Clad in our very best, we watched, practically salivating as player after player entered the ballroom. There were former Dolphins, including Marino; former Canes like Vinny Testeverde and Bernie Kosar; and plenty of former Bills like Bruce Smith and Thurman Thomas. The evening's emcee was none other than Julius Erving. Dr. J was among the more amiable of the athletes as he stopped to shake our hands (his hand swallowing mine), chat, and even snap a group picture.

Jim Kelly's assistant stalked the receiving area, repeatedly firing wide-eyed glances at our group if we made too much of a commotion at an arrival. She clearly did not like us, or our zealous appreciation for the guests. At her first opportunity, the clipboard wielding commander shuffled us off to different sections of the auction, and I bitterly found myself stationed outside the ballroom with my friend Larry. We were tasked with distribution of the gift bags for all who attended the auction, and witnessed, green-eyed, as our friends entered the room with the players, their escorts, and other monied guests. All we wanted was to be in that room, near the players, but we were tethered to a table and had to love it. After a flurry of arrivals that had us elbowing each other under the table and whispering, "Did you see _____?", activity outside the ballroom lulled.

We spent the next hour or so making tissue paper footballs and flicking field goals through finger up-rights. We debated whether or not we had enough time to hustle to the hotel bar and grab a drink before we'd be missed, but seemingly omniscient eye of Kelly's assistant kept us tied to our station. Our orders were simple, make sure every guest leaves with a gift bag and a parting smile, but the all-pervading assistant trailed almost every person to exit the ballroom, just waiting for a misstep to throw us out of the hotel. The gift bags needed dispersal, even though we had already established over-under odds on the amount of bags to be left in the trash beside the valet counter.

We sat, gift bags arrayed before us, for a couple of hours before guest started exiting. From time to time, a friend of ours would pop his head out of the ballroom to excitedly relay they'd helped one player or another, or that someone had just paid an exorbitant sum for an autographed something-or-other. Each time they returned to the ballroom, we'd be left with the gift bags and maybe a newspaper photographer. It wasn't until a cocktail carrying Thurman Thomas staggered from the ballroom that our night didn't truly improve.

Thurman Thomas had, earlier that summer, signed with the Miami Dolphins after ten Hall-of-Fame worthy seasons as the Buffalo Bills featured running back. The man had lead the Bills to four Super Bowls, and almost single-handedly defeated the best Dolphins team I've ever seen with his performance in the 1993 AFC championship game. Now the man lumbered over to us, shrugging off gravity's grip like a defensive back, and parked himself in my chair. He placed his umbrellaed drink beside a gift bag and leaned back, the red in his eyes and his unsteady movements betraying the man's normally stalwart athleticism.

He wasn't much of a talker, clearly seeking a short reprive from the ballroom for one reason or another. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for the long-time Bill to sign with his former archrivals, the Dolphins, then attend the charity auction of one of his former Buffalo teammates in Miami. While Larry and I made small talk with the legend, an old couple exited the ballroom, and angled toward the gift bags. Probably because they saw Thurman Thomas sitting there, and not for a dire need to have the bag despite Jim Kelly's steely-eyed assistant following closely at their heels. When the clipboard carrying woman witnessed what was unfolding before her, she was mortified. We smiled.

The old man carried an encased Bills helmet, the decorated metal adorned with autographs from Jim Kelly, Andre Reed, Bruce Smith, and our guest at the gift bag table, Thurman Thomas. The old woman carried a Dolphins helmet signed by Dan Marino, her husband having fetched both prizes earlier at the auction. Kelly's assistant stood helplessly as the old man sang the praises of Thurman, announcing that all Bills fans mourn his loss to the Dolphins and scorn the fact that Ralph Wilson, long-time owner of the Bills, didn't pony up the cash to keep their legend a Bill for life.

When the old man's wife realized Thurman had signed with the Dolphins, she wanted the drunk running back to sign her Dolphins helmet. He hesitated, sipping his drink. Kelly's assistant plucked a gift bag from the table and handed it to the old man, placing her clipboard at the small of the man's back and nudging him ever slightly toward the lobby. But the old man's wife stoodfast, refusing to leave without the signature. Thurman shrugged and said he didn't have a marker, but we produced one quickly. (We had a stash of markers in hopes of procuring our own autographed paraphernalia.) Thurman tried to focus on the writing utensil, and after another sip, he grabbed it. I removed the casing from the helmet as the old woman clapped in delight. Kelly's assistant glared at us.

Thurman Thomas' focus glazed over as he uncapped the pen. His look lingered on the red Bills helmet, then slipped to the white Dolphins one. His eyes shifted from Jim Kelly's name on one to Marino's name on the other. Then, with a drunken flick of the wrist, Thurman Thomas scrawled his name illegibly beneath the logo on the metal, capped the pen, and sipped his drink. The woman hopped, scurried around the table and planted a kiss on the man's cheek. We offered to snap a picture for the couple, and the pair croutched beside a near-comatose Thurman.

Kelly's assistant fumed beside us, her pen clicking the clipboard. She could stand it no longer. She pulled the woman away, her most politcal smile pasted on her plastic face, and chatted as she forced a gift bag into the wrinkled hands of the old man's wife. As we replaced the case on the helmet, a glazed look sat on Thurman's face. He stared lifelessly at the Dolphins helmet before him. His sight swirled to a more readible rendition of his name on the Bills helmet. The old man thanked him again, and Thurman grunted his response.

The legend's focus remained on the two helmets before him as the old man turned to Kelly's assistant to thank her for a wonderful evening. At this point, Larry leaned in, gestured with his chin toward the helmets and asked Thurman, "How does that feel?"

The man sat. He clutched the last of his drink, and downed it in a shot. Then he spoke.

"That's fucked up."

At this, he rose wobbily from the gift bag table and patted us on the back, though probably just to maintain balance. He staggered back to the ballroom. The old couple gathered their helmets, pilfered a second gift bag, and hustled toward the lobby. Kelly's assistant waved her clipboard, then spun on her heel, and retreated to the auction without so much as a glance at Larry or myself. I returned to my seat, leaned back with my feet propped on the edge of the table, and knew we now had the best story from the evening, and once we got to booze it up with our buddies, we'd delight in their jealousy.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Writing a Metaphor for Love

Columbia University in NYC

For the last three years, I had the wonderful opportunity of attending the Columbia Scholastic Press Association writer's conference in New York City. This was a perpetually fruitful trip because, while traveling under the guise of a chaperone, I'm convinced I learned and enjoyed more than any of the students I had in tow. Just roaming the walkways of an Ivy League university provided me the glimpse of the college life I never recieved attending Florida International University. Beyond that, the trip afforded us the chance to take in a few Broadway shows, tour the attractions of the City, and purchase purses; the Latter being an adventure of, at times, questionable legality. But that's a post for another day.

The Maddening Crowd by NineDays

The writer's conference hosts a series of workshops on Journalism, Video Production, Yearbook, and Creative Writing. As the Literary Magazine advisor at school, my primary focus at the writer's conference was, naturally, the creative writing sessions. I attended many notable and valuable sessions, some which pushed my own writing and publishing efforts forward, but one session stood out above the rest each year. The session was presented by John Hampson, teacher, writer, and lead-singer/guitarist of the band Nine Days. (You'll remember their hit song "Absolutely (Story of a Girl)" from 2000.)

I have a handful of personal experiences with celebrities (mostly professional athletes); some positive and some negative. Interacting with John Hampson was exceedingly positive because he did not set himself above anyone in the room. While the girls, both students and the female chaperones that accompanied me on the trip, fawned over the man, he remained grounded and open. After the session concluded, he stayed to sign autographs, give out CDs, and, much to the delight of my fellow chaperones, take pictures. I enjoyed my conversation with John because of the man's down-to-earth persona. We connected as writers, teachers, and fathers; discussing how we both hugged our children after reading Cormac McCarthy's post-apocalyptic tour de force, The Road.

His session at the conference, Literary Lyrics, provided me with classroom activities I still use in my poetry units today. I used his lyrical breakdown of his hit song "Absolutely (Story of a Girl)" to reinforce with my students the obvious connection bewteen poetry and song-writing. Deconstructing the literary devices used in their favorite songs was something the students always enjoyed.

During the workshop last year, John introduced a little warm-up exercise to the participants that involved choosing an inanimate object in the classroom and using it to develop a metaphor for love. I scanned the room for a moment, taking in my surroundings; the tight desks, the slatted windows, the dusty chalkboard. I settled on the chalkboard because, while it added to the old school feel of Columbia, it was an object that has largely disappeared in the modern classroom; replaced by either dry-erase boards or SmartBoards. I decided to develop my metaphor for love using the chalkboard, creating by my comparison between these two unlike entities.

Poetry has never been my primary focus as a writer; it has always been fiction writing. Moreover, its novel writing that has always been my ultimate concentration. However, writing poetry has been useful to me, helping me develop a rhythm to my prose, and honing the skill of manipulating language. My poetry still has a long way to go, but below, you'll find my short metaphor poem. It's not my greatest work, churned out in a short period of time at the workshop, but it's something I'd like to share, considering Valentine's Day is right around the corner. Feel free to let me know what you think, or share your own little metaphor for love. Here's mine:

The chalkboard is love;
   the dust of former relationships
   shaping the texture
   of the present
When what's written is real,
   it's for all the world to read
   enjoy and wonder
   what it might mean.

On a separate note, here's a link to a website where you could check out John Hampson and Nine Days' music.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Bio Poem

As a Creative Writing teacher for the last five years, one of the many challenges I faced was getting the students to realize that poetry can be simple and fun. It's doesn't have to be a highbrow exercise in condescension. My favorite poet, Billy Collins, is nothing if not simple and direct with his word choice and imagery. It's the simplicity that elicits the thoughtful approach any poet hopes their readers take.

Poetry is about the manipulation of words to create an image, an evocative image. It's the use of language to produce a cohesive idea that transcends mere writing and lifts poetry to art. That being said, many novice writers may feel incredibly intimidated with the prospect of having to produce poetry. My approach to help desconstruct that barrier for the students is to introduce a formula poem like the Bio Poem.

Formula poetry is a style of poetry that adheres to an established set of guidelines in the creation of the work. There are different styles of formula poetry, some obviously more difficult than others. Some of the most popular formula poems are Haiku, Sonnets, and Cinquains, but the types I found most useful at the beginning stages of my poetry units were poems where the students finished a given line with different information. As the unit evolved, the poems became more difficult because the guidelines became less stringent.

The Bio Poem also served a dual purpose. When used at the beginning of the semester, this formula poem can also act as an icebreaker of sorts. Below you will find the guidelines for the formula, and my own Bio Poem. There are any number of different Bio Poems and this specific set of lines was presented to me at the Zelda Glazer Writing Institute about seven years ago. My intention with this post is to have it serve a something of an icebreaker for the community of this blog. I'd love it if my readers here would write their own Bio Poem as comments under this post. Please share!

Bio Poem

Line #1: First Name
Line #2: Four Adjectives to describe certain character traits
Line #3: "Relative of..." (list three people/things)
Line #4: "Lover of..." (list three people/things)
Line #5: "Who feels..." (list three)
Line #6: "Who needs..." (list three)
Line #7: "Who gives..." (list three)
Line #8: "Who fears..." (list three)
Line #9: "Who would like to see..." (list three)
Line #10: Last Name

Here's my Bio Poem:
Creative, Crafty, Compassionate, Comfortable
Relative of Readers, Day-dreamers, and Starters
Lover of Family, Friends, and Coffee
Who feels Frustrated and Tired, or Happy and Rested
Who needs rest, quiet, and more coffee
Who gives time, effort, and the occassional cliché  
Who fears my imagination, failure, and cockroaches (Thanks, Mom!)
Who would like to see my book at Barnes & Noble, the Pyramids, and the Dolphins win a Super Bowl

Again, feel free to post your own Bio Poem below. I'd love to read it. Ultimately, poetry is an art form meant to be enjoyed.

Here's a link to one of my favorite Billy Collins poems.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

My Dolphins Super Bowl Wish

I'm 30 years old. I'm a Miami sports fan. Among the many things I've been able to experience in my sports-viewing life are: a college football national championship (1991), attending a World Series game (1997), a World Series championship (1997), a dominant University of Miami football team and another college football National Championship (2001), a second World Series championship (2003), and a NBA championship (2006). Sports fans around the nation might say that as a Miami sports fan, I am spoiled. Even if you look at the current landscape of Miami sports, more NBA championships have been promised.

What you didn't see on my list is a Super Bowl championship. And that, dear readers, has always been my number 1 sports wish.

It's true that in my lifetime, the Miami Dolphins (the flagship sports franchise of the city), employed arguably the greatest passer in NFL history. It's true that in my lifetime, Dan Marino and the Miami Dolphins made it to a Super Bowl. Being 30 years old though, when that Super Bowl (Super Bowl XIX) was played, I was four years old. I have no memory of that game other than the highlights I've seen. I have no memory of Marino's greatest seasons ('84, '85, and '86). I even have no memory of the epic Monday Night Football showdown against the then undefeated Chicago Bears. I didn't really start watching, understanding, and enjoying football until the early 90s.

For me, the Dolphins were always good-not-great. Now they aren't even that. The last several season have the team mired in mediocrity, and the present leadership group inspires a less than hopeful future.

Football is this country's most visceral of sports. While basketball is an urban game of athletic finesse, and baseball is an individual sport of practiced skill, football approaches closer to Ancient Roman gladitorial combat than any of the mainstream sports. To win the Super Bowl is to be crowned the "primus palus", or champion of champions. And that's the viewing experience I am missing from my sports life.

As you look at football, you see the connections to the gladiators of Ancient Roman; the arenas, the crowds, the inspriation of the people to bloodlust. (One of my aunts notably yells: "Kill 'em" while watching the Dolphin defense approach an opposing ball-carrier.) It's probably no coincidence that one of the most popular shows on TV these days, Spartacus, is all about gladiators.

For me, this passion for the Dolphins pushed me toward hated of the Jets, Patriots, and Bills. And it was in the 90s, when the Dolphins were masquerading as championship-contenders, that the Bills sat atop AFC. I hated their blue and red. Andre Reed, Bruce Smith, and Thurman Thomas were all players I could not help but dispise. Not even Jim Kelly escaped my loathing, because his time at the helm of the UM football team was before my time. It was only years later, while volunteering at Jim Kelly's charity auction and golf tournamnet, that I connected with a few of these men on a personal level. My experience with Thurman Thomas being particulary delightful. (I promise to tell that story soon.)

So as I take to the couch later this afternoon, like the millions of other spectators, I can't help but one day wish to watch my own team playing for the pinnacle of professional football. This is my Dolphins Super Bowl Wish. It's so much a part of my sports-life that as a Creative Writing teacher, I include this desire in a formula poem I assign my students called the Biopoem. One of the final lines of the Biopoem formula is to write three things you hope to see, and one of my hopes is to see the Dolphins win a Super Bowl. (I'll post my Biopoem for anyone to read and the formula for anyone to try.)

As they are currently constructed, the Miami Dolphins are a ways away from fulfilling my wish. Hopefully, the franchise's front office can figure it out soon, but until then, there are plenty of Super Bowl commercials to enjoy.

And there's always the Miami Heat.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

A Rebranding

Welcome to the first of what I plan to be many posts here on my new blog, DLFwriting. My approach with my old blog, SandalsontheBeach, was not as disciplined as I had imagined, and as a result, I've decided upon a new approach to my writing and wanted a fresh start. The plan is still the same; to become a profilic poster in order to further deveolp and fine-tune my skills in the medium. The end game, too, is still the same; to become a published writer.

There's no doubt in my mind I'll get there, it's just a matter of finally following the advice of a former teacher of mine from the FIU Creative Writing Department, John Dufrense. He said a couple things that have stuck with me, even if I haven't acted upon them with the discipline I should.

#1: "Novels are written, not wished into existence."

#2: "You have to sit your ass in the chair or nothing will get done."

I am certainly guilty of not following that second commandment. Far too many days have passed where I did not sit down and hammer out a scene or two. Far too many days have passed where I've said to myself I should be writing. Far too many days have been wasted with my fingers manipulating the buttons of one remote control or another and not the keys of my keyboard.

So this new blog, hopefully, is a renewal of the commitment to those two pieces of advice. And as such, instead of returning to the old blog, I've decided to rebrand myself, not unlike a professional wrestler changing his stage name in an effort to develop a more successful and recognizable gimmick.

As a kid in the 80s, professional wrestling was very much a part of my life. Watching Hulk Hogan and the Macho Man Randy Savage, among many others, was something my brothers and I enjoyed very much. Eventually, Macho Man gave way to the Ultimate Warrior and other wrestlers came to dominate the scene. Learning that wrestling was fake, while in retrospect was ridiculous, at the time it was devastating. It was a seismic shake to my reality, an event that tipped my personal richter scales in much the same way as learning Santa Claus wasn't actually the one eating the chocolate chip cookies we'd baked on Christmas Eve.

My enjoyment of professional wrestling renewed in college, when the now-WWE (formerly WWF) dominated the sports entertainment landscape. It was then when I paid more attention to the characters, and found the sophmoric inanity to be an escape. While my interest has certainly wanned since then, it was at that point in time I noticed wrestlers changing their names, become different characters, and usually, that rebranding resulted in a far more successful stage-run for the wrestler. Take Triple H, maybe the most popular and successful wrestler for a ten-year stretch (I'm sure it had nothing to do with the fact he eventually married Stephanie McMahon, the daughter of the company's owner). Paul Levesque debuted as "The Connecticut Blue Blood Hunter Hearst Hemsley" and that stage name eventually morphed into Triple H, and his gimmick evolved right along side the name. A wrestler from my original enjoyment of wrestling, the 1-2-3 Kid, later became "X-Pac" and had a far more successful run with that monkier.

My blog rebranding is an effort to reenergize my efforts to become a published writer. I'm not going to try completely change my image, like Nike's efforts to rebrand LeBron as a villian. Lebron's efforts in that rebranding are half-hearted at best, and my efforts cannot be that. Now that I've finally settled on a name for my new blog, I will heed the advice of my former teacher and sit my ass in the chair to pound out some posts and practice my prose. My focus will be on getting my stories finished, edited, and ready for publication.

When listening to John Dufrense's writing commandments, I can't help but have another quote sound in my mind. The quote will bolster my efforts to become a published writer. A dear friend of mine, Steven, once told me I should always have a Star Wars reference in all my stories, so here's one for the first post on my new blog.

"Do. Or do not. There is no try." -Yoda